Shallow Man

I am not a male basher, I swear. But some men are soooooooo shallow!!!! It rarely brings me to the edge of frustration, but as with anything in life there are exceptions.
What frustrates me, as a short woman who is not a super model, is to have the "perfect" ideal figure for a woman be 5'7", 120 lbs, with a 34-24-34 body type. In physical reality, this woman would be very slender, with a flat chest and no ass because her body fat would be so low. I don't think men realize just how this would look in real life. It is disheartening to come to the conclusion that maybe that is why the "rest of us girls" are constantly being measured against a yardstick of impossibility and the result is one disappointment after another. I don't think that a balding, 40 yr man, with excessive body hair, bad breath, and 200 lbs is our ideal, but these same men are the ones with this standard or belief.
On the other hand, in defense of the open-minded and non-judging gentlemen out there, some men prefer to hug soft curves and not a bag of bones, and also take into consideration the woman on the inside! Kudos to them, for they shall have a lot of women to choose from!